The Tantrik tradition has come to be viewed as synonymous in the West with sex..
And, to some extent, that's the case in Asia too, mostly because of the
pervasive influence of Western education. Tantrik traditions main focus is on
complete life, as such sexuality has a part to play, more as union of Siva
(male) and Sakthi (female) within.
When a woman and man live together in close agreement, as one soul in a single
body, they shall be happy in this world, and in that to come. Their good
charitable actions will be an example to humankind and their peace and harmony
will effect their salvation.
Time is Lord Siva and Life is Goddess Shakti
Body is the temple of Shakti
Thousands of books have been written to educate men and women the importance of
Spiritual Union, and to resolve their endless search for fulfilling love. Most
often sensual pleasure is been seen as intimate love. ParaTan Secrets of love
is not just another philosophical treatise on the ecstasies of India Love.
Rather it is a pragmatic path that distills the secret teachings on the Love
Dance of Siva and Sakthi. With the blessings of my Divine Mother Kali, the
knowledge is available to those of you who think that they deserve to enjoy
Spiritual bliss within a relationship.
“Sri Bhairava said: Now I speak of the supreme mantra of
Mahakali, bestowing all poesy. Listen attentively, O Maheshani. She is the
primordial one, Prakriti, the beautiful woman, the primordial knower, with kalas,
the Fourth, the ultimate mother, the boon giver, the desirable one, the lady of
heroes, the giver of success to sadhakas.
She, the primordial one, Mahaprakriti, Kali, the true form of time, whose great
mantra of all mantras is the ocean of mantra, she alone gives all success to a
sadhaka who wants it. The destroyer of anxiety, giving boons, seated on a
corpse, gives all desires, O Devi, and creates all marvels.”
Brihad Nila Tantra
Lord Kartikeya and Mother Kali came into my life when I was in my early
twenties, and have blesses me with many talents, mainly to serve humanity.
Unlike what the world thing of her, for me, she has always been the soft
beautiful Mother, who has always been there for me, blessing me with the
knowledge of ParaTan. .
The sexual imbalance between men and women is been secretly accepted by men for
thousands of years. A woman can sexually receive her man for as long as she
pleases, and a Tantrik understand that her Sakthi energy is nearly
inexhaustible. A man’s lovemaking is limited to the amount of energy he has to
keep his erection. His Siva essence is more easily tired. A woman is sexually
stronger than a man is because biologically she needs to be. Her reproductive
organs are the same as the creative force of the universe.
Most men know the infinite sexual capacity of women, as such, they sought
physical, political, financial and religious advantage over them, but this
brought about more disharmonious society. Man’s insecurity made him use religion
and politic to suppress woman thousands of years ago, during the Vedic times.
However, Christen religion openly condemned woman, Eve for eating the apple from
the middle of the garden of Eden, yet with Tantrik tradition women played a
powerful role in their rituals for they are mediums through whom Devi’s grace
permeate into society. Their presence is required to make every occasion
auspicious. With ParaTan we worship woman as the Sricakra, thus using her as
the medium through whom the healing energy of Devi permeate all.
Eve was supposed to have been cursed for her role in the crime with pain of
menstruation and childbearing. Because of her transgression, all women came to
be deprived of power and position in human society. In Tantrik tradition
menstrual blood is clearly the price for conception. In fact, the most critical
moments of a woman’s life is menstruation, deflowering and childbirth. Blood is
the sacred life force, not for nothing are holy figurines from the stone-age
onwards colored with red pigments. The loss of blood is an offering by the
female of her vital life force, and before a woman can conceive, she must first
bleed. It has been seen that she shed her blood in order to bear a child, that
the monthly moon-blood was the price of children. fertility and life, was
therefore sacred and deserving of reverence. To a Tantrik, when a women in her
menses, she is not considered as unclean, but holy, unlike other sects of
Hindus, who see it as unclean. The name given to menstrual blood is
“kundapuspa”, means “flower of the holy well”. In Sanskrit the word “kund” means
a spring, a well, or basin of sanctify water for holy purpose
It is not gods will to curse woman, a species created in his own image, but
man’s weakness that made this teaching a reality, in both Christian and Muslim
society, then it slowly spread to less aware Asians, with the spreading of
Christianity and Islam.
Abrahamic faith flourished in and around the near East and Egypt 2000 years ago
and was popular amongst Jews and early Christians.
The Gnostics believed in a feminine divine entity called Shekinah, Lady of
wisdom, who stood and shone beside Jehovah, The Almighty Father. Also known as
Sophia, she interceded between man and God. Visible only to the chosen people
who followed the Lord's commandments, according to Jewish texts, part of her
function was to heal and comfort.
Genesis is deeply symbolic, and cannot be grasped by literal interpretation.
Many years ago I found Adam and Eve, allegory in the Autobiography of the Yogi
by Paramahansa Yogananda. “The tree of life, the human body is the apple tree.
The spinal cord is like upturned tree, with man’s hair as its roots, and
afferent and efferent nerves as branches. The tree of the nervous system bears
many enjoyable fruits, or sensations of sight, sound, smell, taste, and touch.
In these, man may rightfully indulge; but he was forbidden the experience of
sex, the apple at the center of the body (in the midst of the garden).
The serpent represented the coiled up spinal energy that stimulates the sex
nerves. Adam is reason and Eve is feeling. When the emotion of Eve-consciousness
in any human being is overpowered by the sex impulse. His reason or Adam also
God created the human species by materializing the bodies of man and women
through the force of His will; He endowed the new species with the power to
create children in similar immaculate or divine manner”:
Sex is a drug, an opiate for the discontent. Total sexual freedom did not supply
the stability people needed most. Today, people are turning back to either
marriage or Spirituality to seek their sense of an absolute.
ParaTan does not offer marriage as the solution to stability, unless it be the
marriage of subtle energies which we identify as Siva and Sakthi, in Tao known
as yin and yang.
“Maheshani, meditate as being absorbed in the yoni cakra, with yoni on the
tongue, yoni in the mind, yoni in the ears and yoni in the eyes. Mighty Lady,
all sadhana is vain unless with the yoni. Therefore, reject other pujas and do
Yoni Puja. Maheshani, there is no siddhi without devotion to the Guru” - Yoni
“One should meditate on the second cakra as having eight petals, as bright as a
beautiful pure flame. One conquers death and becomes the cause of great
excitation. Meditating one-pointedly on the multi-fold form one becomes an
emperor amongst kings, doing whatsoever one wills, and may destroy all in the
three worlds, whether animate or inanimate - like Kruddha, the cause of both
creation and dissolution, always engaged in love” Kaula school of Tantra
The second cakra Meditations can be preformed with one’s partner, worship her
Yoni as part of the Sricakra, by using Mantra Sakthi
Those who have experienced ParaTan sound healing would have experienced a small
part of the worship.
Love, here relates to the sensual enjoyment, but in the form of a dance between
the God and Goddess. To dance in this manner one has to be free from the
bondage, of depression, neediness, fear, paranoia, anxiety, anger, greed, hatred
and lust yearning, shame, guilt, and an insatiable, inexplicable, never ending
disaffection with worldly existence.. In modern times one is subjected to anyone
or all of this impulses in some form, and over time all this qualities become
part of one’s personality, reappearing when least expected. The emotions are
lodged in the cell of the organs. Emotional tension is expressed in the way you
breathe. The emotional sensitivity is associated with the lungs and the large
intestine. Balancing the emotions in the body will be closely related with
establishing good breathing patens and insuring the body’s ability to eliminate
anything it does not need to carry. Most of the trauma of our lives collects in
the small intestine as knots. It will hold this trauma until it is safe to
Sadness in the lungs can be released by breathing freely, and releasing
congestion in the large intestine. Each internal organ is the home for a
particular negative emotion associated with it. ParaTan healing with Mantra
Sakthi works on tonifying organs thus releasing the emotions. Anger lives in the
liver, anxiety in the spleen and pancreas, fear and paranoia in the kidney,
cruelty and impatience in the heart. All the above emotions are the gift of
living in the world that we have created for ourselves.
Freedom from trauma is freedom to LOVE
In modern society, men like to list all the factors on which sex in marriage
depends, urging repeatedly that women’s need for “sensual” enjoyment is
paramount and that only if a woman is satisfied can the man be pleased. The
power within her Yoni is equal to all the power of the three worlds, as she is
the aspect of the Divine Mother of Creation.
The secret force behind the universe was sometimes regarded as female, even as
material, and, in the cult of Shakti, women became sacred object, and
incarnation of the Mother.
The whole meaning of Lord Krishna’s romance with Radha is that it places love
before duty. In Gita Govinda, it is mentioned that their love was strongly
sexual, but the relationship has a mythical twist to it. Radha in adoring Lord
Krishna is compared to the soul adoring God. Adoration is the supreme type of
merit. In sexual rapture, there is a sense of losing one’s self and this is a
symbol of losing oneself in God/Goddess.
Sex by religion is reflected in the worship of Siva. Siva’s idol is, phallus or
lingam set in the yoni or female organ, a very plainness of the symbol gave sex
a new meaning
In ancient India, “sex was regarded as inherently noble, sexual rapture was the
most complete analogy for spiritual bliss. In the embrace of his beloved, a man
forgets the whole world, everything both within and without; in the same way, he
who embraces the Self knows neither within nor without”. The words are from an
ancient text, the Brhadaranyaka Upanishad
In ancient India, a union between the opposite sexes was consummated as a
spiritual act, to enhance spiritual union between Siva and Sakthi within. It is
the union of the God and goddess within.
Sex is freedom, yet sex is not free, and it should not be taken lightly. It is a
noble act, only to be entered into between couples who really adore each other.
Sex in its freedom appears to exemplify romance and passion. Embraces, kisses,
love blow, and sexual positions have only one aim to improve the art of sex. Sex
is nothing without delicacy. Delicacy can only be present in a being when he or
she is free from trauma lodged in the cells as emotional memories. Freedom from
past emotional baggage creates space for delicacy. With emotional freedom, one
gains a lively, new appreciation for live with romance and passion. Sex however,
itself is not important, the changing aspect of one’s romance is important. To
generate the greatest emotion to excite, enhance and soothe -- ideal love. The
less passion love, there is, the more essential it is to believe in enhancing
one’s emotional freedom.
Emotional freedom creates freedom for passionate love
Outer Worship, the play of LOVE, the healing love art!
Puja (worship) can take many forms and is but one aspect of the tradition. It
can be performed either externally or internally. A tantrik may perform daily
puja to her or his particular devata and this can be a beautiful rite involving
all the senses. With external rituals one worships, ones own partner as the
The daily puja, whatever the favored deity, includes worship of the Sun, Shiva,
Shakti as Mahakali, and Ganesha. The main concept in this puja is that the god,
goddess and planets are considered to be residing within the body, are given
worship and treated as honored guests. All recitation and ritual elements are
given to the Goddess/God or planet within her or him. The worshipper and the
worshiped are not separate. When there is no separation between worshipper and
the worshiped, then the dance of life begins, the Great Love Dance of
Siva/Sakthi will be experienced, the journey to ultimate bliss-joy.
Worshiping one’s partner as the devata is the most powerful form of worship, by
either using the various ritual accessories (upachara) or just using the bija
sound of the devatas. Using ritual accessories generally adds color to the
worship, thus experiencing inner joy. One can also worship one’s own body using
internal worship, but the effect is not as potent, until one has become a
“Any ritual is an opportunity for transformation. To do ritual, you must be
willing to be transformed in some way. That inner willingness is what makes the
ritual come alive and have power.”
Ritual accessories used in the daily ceremony, are 16 principal items, being,
asana (seat), svagata (welcome), padya (water for washing feet), arghya (rice,
flowers, sandal paste), achamana (sipping water), madhuparka (honey, ghee, milk,
curd), snana (bathing), vasana (clothes), abharana (gems), gandha (perfume and
sandal), pushpa (flowers), dhupa (incense stick), dipa (flame), naivedya (food)
and namaskar (prayer). All daily pujas follow a very similar pattern that can be
learned at our Mother Center in India, or when our Master is on tour to various
parts of the world, where he is invited.
Sex in ancient India and Rome were both very colorful, more so in India, for
they also understood the order of the Universe. Natural Astrology in the sixteen
century A.D gives a wonderful if fantastic description of what contemporary life
was like. People of that time believed, by the planets, stars, moon and sun.
This served as a guide and influenced the best of classical India philosophy
and culture into clues for understanding the process of how people relate.
Life in relationship, and how well or poorly we relate to our environment and
the people we encounter determines how happy or unhappy our lives become. The
wise becomes mindful of how they relate, for every encounter with the other
influences our pursuit of health and happiness according to its degree of
From ancient to present time, relationship question are among the most frequent
that astrologer hear from clients. India Astrology or Jyotisha is still
frequently employed in modern India to evaluate the likely success of business,
marriage, progeny, and friendship relationship.
In the context of relationship analysis, an astrologer examines the karmas that
the would be couple bring forward into this lifetime, and evaluates how well the
would be couples will actually pursue a relationship.
In all aspect of Tantric teaching the joy of sex plays an important role. Yoni
(womb) compatibility evaluates a couple’s generative organs, with a view to
ensure successful mating. Good yoni compatibility suggests that the couple will
be karmically aligned for sexual congress, even if challenges occur in that
process of time. Excellent Yoni compatibility exists when the woman’s Moon
occupies a female nakshatra, and the male’s Moon a male nakshatra, and their
associated animals are compatible.
In ancient India, they understood life demands that they relate perpetually to
their world. They also understood that their existence depended on the regular
intake of food, water, light, sound, love and other nutrients that flow into
them from the sources outside of themselves. They also understood that they
influence the environment as they communicate, fabricate, move, excrete, create,
and perform all the other activities that constitute their live. When they
disturb the balance of these exchanges, they disturb the foundation of their
being; modern human, not understanding these laws creates lots of disturbance
within both the home and the environment.
Few people of modern time marry with the intension of eventually divorcing, but
today’s high rate of divorce suggests that many people marry without accurately
appraising a proposed relationship potential
Many couples most often feel incomplete during sex because one partner has
completed the experience, and the other has not had the chance to begin. Some
people get bored with sex in a long-term relationship and wishing that they
could go back in time to recapture the passionate sex and exciting experience as
when they first came together. Then their desire was, to always be engaged in
“Until now most human beings have remained quite ignorant of their own loving
potential. We human beings are able to make love more frequently and sensuously
then perhaps any other animal. Yet we are often disappointed after love-making.
Why? Because most of us are like owners of a precious Stradivarius violin that
we have never learnt to play”
Jolan Chang --The Tao of the Loving Couple
When Yoni compatibility is not present, then the experience of feverish passion
seems to disappear slowly, then adultery most often steps into their lives. Both
ancient India and Rome were strangely alike in their views of adultery. The both
took adultery for granted and no attempt was made to square it with ethics or
religion. It should never be lightly undertaken with wives of friend and
relatives. It is said that passionate, frantic desire may override prudence.
Our Joy of Love 30 day’s program will help single and couples, everyone who want
to dance to the Divine music of life, by learning the art of sensual worship.
This unique way of worship, that has never been used before, as sensual art of
love or healing. A Tantrik used it to worship the Great Goddess, to a limited
extend. This form of sensual love will help harmonize the couple with the three
worlds, thus heal each other, but also creating a greater bond with each other,
loosing duality, thus two becoming one soul in a single body
Our Joy of Love program will help Lover unceasingly delight their delightful,
thus intensifying both love and sex.
To experience the joy of love one needs to heal one’s past memories of Trauma
experienced in general living and in relationships. At our center in India, not
only will we help heal your past emotional, we will also share with you the art
of delicacy, and the dance of love. Here we are not talking about sex, but
sensual love. To waken the sexual power within, the sensual self must first be
invoked, or else sex will feel like masturbating with the self, never totally
Each year we will be offer 4, 30 days program where by one explores all matters
sensual, from setting the mood to explicit instruction on technique. The aim of
the workshop is to share instructions for intimate relationship with the self,
and one’s partner.
May the Great Goddess of Tantra bless you with Love and Light!
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find the sound of the Goddesses, Bija sound that are used during ParaTan
sound healing. An Inner Tantric practice, deeper tradition of Tantra,
its multidimensional vision of the Divine and its transformative practices
of bija mantra that take us far beyond the outer models of how Tantra is
usually presented today
The Mahavidya Inner Health Center 3778-A (TKT.1) Jalan RJ 6/11 Taman Rasah Jaya,
Seremban NS, Malaysia, 70300
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Periayur Taluk, Madurai district,
Tamil Nadu, India
LOVE IS THE POWER OF THE UNIVERSE and it is only through the light and way
of love that we may raise our vibration and reclaim our inner divinity. Para Tan
utilizes ancient sacred sounds to break up cellular memory and circulate Shakti
aka LOVE aka SOUND through the body. This feeling of love is the orgasmic bliss
of cosmic union with divinity within and around us.